- robdeere
- Jul 17
- 2 min read

In a high-stress situation, whether on the battlefield, in a boardroom, giving a presentation, an interview or at home, our ability to lead effectively hinges on our ability to remain calm, focused, and in control. One of the most powerful and accessible tools we have to achieve this is our breath. The importance of breathing for leaders cannot be overstated.
Controlling our breathing isn't just about us appearing calm, although that is important too; its about regaining access to the parts of our brain responsible for clear thinking, decision-making, and empathy. Under stress, the body triggers our sympathetic nervous system, preparing us for fight, flight, freeze or posture. Our heart rate spikes, our muscles tense and our breathing becomes shallow and rapid. This may help when we are in immediate danger, but it compromises our ability to think clearly, decide effectively and maintain empathy - it compromises our ability to lead.
By slowing and deepening our breath, we activate the parasympathetic nervous system, which acts like a brake pedal on our arousal, helping to lower cortisol levels, reduce our heart rate and to bring our brain back online. This physiological shift allows us to:
Think more clearly under pressure
Regulate our emotions rather than reacting impulsively
Project calm and confidence, which helps calm and steady those around us
Stay present, enabling sharper situational awareness through better listening and observation
Make better decisions
Lead effectively
A simple technique, like box breathing, can make a rapid tangible difference; which is why it is taught, amongst others, to soldiers, surgeons and athletes.
In the storm of high-stress leadership, at work or home, breath control becomes an anchor. It's not a luxury or in any way 'woo-woo'. When you master your breath, you master your response - and that can be the difference between panic and poise, chaos and clarity, and the difference between successful leadership and failure.
In my next blog on the importance of breathwork for leaders, I'll write more about the science and field research underpinning 'tactical' breathing.